I was chatting with someone recently and in our catching up she was telling me how
busy she was and also that she wasn't seeing any improvement in her harp playing.
There’s a lot going on. We are all busy. We have work, and home, and friends…and harp. And it is difficult to fit practicing in every day. And she’s not getting any better.
The kicker is, we were chatting on Facebook where she is a
frequent poster*. She always has time to
post on Facebook and spends a great deal of time online each day. I don’t know how she does it – keeping all the
balls in the air!There’s a lot going on. We are all busy. We have work, and home, and friends…and harp. And it is difficult to fit practicing in every day. And she’s not getting any better.
I’m not denying anyone time on Facebook (or any other
activity) – clearly I was on Facebook too since we were chatting. It was the complaint about the lack of progress
in the face of the very time consuming (and non-productive) activity that I found interesting.
In each day, in each moment, we choose how we spend our
time. As harpers we have chosen a
beautiful, forgiving but demanding instrument.
It is a hobby or profession that requires much of us to move on and
develop. We either choose to work hard
to get that reward or we must recognize that we do not get the prize without
the fight. The rewards are great – but the
price is high.
Does your ideal match your schedule?
* before you think it was you, this is actually a composite
of people and conversations I have had recently – it’s not you, really, it’s
someone else J