Travel is Broadening

You already know that all of us are back from the Harpa Scotland 2019 Retreat.  If the photos, videos, comments, and smiles are any indication – it was another brilliant success.  Harpa is so much fun because it has a simple formula:

HARPA = 

amazing musicians + fantastic tour guide + incredible roadie = 

sharing music joy + enjoying each other + adventure!

You’ve heard the maxim that travel is broadening – and not just from delicious cakes and scones!  As you travel with your harp, you develop or hone many sterling qualities including forbearance, faith and patience!  Whether you like it or not, you must let go, trust the Fates, and be patient (outside the “Oversize Luggage” belt mostly!).

Most of us are control freaks (especially about our harps).  Many of us do not know this about ourselves (or if we do, we underestimate).  Few things will test your mettle like traveling with your instrument and entrusting it to the TSA.  And while American (airline) may hate guitars, I’m pretty sure it’s the TSA that hates harps.  Or at least, hates harp cases.  I qualify this, though, to say that although I have gotten my harp back partially latched or completely unlatched, it has always weathered the journey (Forbearance?  Faith?  Probably both).

But more than that, traveling with your harp opens doors you might not even know were there otherwise.  We have been places we likely would have gone right by – simply because those places opened themselves up to the possibility of us playing there!  We have never played anywhere dull.  This openness on their parts helps us to be more open on our part – to see new things or to see familiar things differently (including toilets, refrigerators, and door locks!).  And once we are opened, adventures appear around every bend.

Our trips are always small – this time we had seven.  This allows us to go places often overlooked or bypassed.  It also ensures we don’t travel as a band of tourists – simply observing, never venturing outside our comfort.  But it also generates a community and engenders sharing with one another - we gel in ways that big groups never get.  We become a traveling family, if ever so briefly. We share our experiences – and our cookies!  And that sharing is part of the fun.  And the more fun we have together, the more fun we find.  And so it grows!

But perhaps the best bit is that we meet other people – in restaurants and cafes, at attractions, in our accommodations.  We were invited along to a stramash by someone we met at one of our concerts.  See how that works?!  At the time we weren't sure we knew what a stramash is, but we kinda thought we did, and we went along to it.  It was a blast!  We got to play tunes with local musicians, we heard some new ones, played some shared favs and heard some lovely singing.  We got to share the joy of making music – in a fun, organic, very Scottish way!  (Just to confirm, a stramash is a seisiun).  We met a delightful couple at a fish and chips restaurant…because they photo bombed one of our group selfies!  It is these brief interactions punctuating the trip that not only make great memories, but really define good travels.  While chatting with an audience member we learned of a museum that none of our research had unearthed.  And later, once there, we met and chatted with more lovely locals and learned more than just looking at some displays would ever have wrought.

All that leads to learning more about yourself.  You learn where your unknown assumptions and ignorances lie and have the opportunity to examine them.  These assumptions and ignorances are not good or bad, but examining them means you can rethink their utility.  I’m not talking about bigotry but rather biases like what we select for our concert program, how we introduce ourselves and our music to the audience, and how we meet them where they are when we perform (and appreciating when they’re not where we thought they’d be!).  A small group also learns to accept more - the morning person must be patient while the not-morning person strives to not be cranky at the start of the day (and vice versa at the end of the day).   We help one another – with luggage, and art supplies, and fingering, and leftovers, and making tea (and more tea, and yet more tea!). 

And best of all – each trip is different.  The harp attracts all kinds – players and appreciators and audiences.  We make lifelong friends and brief – but enriching acquaintances.  Even if we return to a place, it is new, and we grow in it. And being invited back is a pleasure and a privilege. 

So Harpa 2019 is in the books – an unqualified success.  We’re all home, laundry cycled (mostly), gifts given, postcards received (mostly).  And we look forward to the next time!

Once we sleep off our jetlag, we will start planning the next Harpa outing!

But we’re also finalizing plans for the 2020 Harp the Highlands and Islands trip – details coming soon.  Would you like to be broadened (by travel and cakes)?  Want to be part of the action and first to know the details? Leave me a comment to that effect below!

PS: Photo credit for this week and last go to the Harpaniks and especially Donna Bennett, Therese Honey, and Robin Pettit.

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